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i don't know if i can 'teach' you but i can say what worked for me was communication and letting go of fears and reservations. sounds cheesy/cliché/trite/insincere/hard/simple, still i have been amazed by what a difference active and frank communication makes in a relationship [substitute for friendship, partnership, etc]. i think M and i were scared to rush into a relationship and we both verbalized that and then took it at a pace that worked for us. it's something we're constantly in dialogue about, and that we're still working on yet it formed a really solid basis for beautiful, beautiful things.